Thursday, September 8, 2011

Simplicity and the Element of Surprise



To make someone happy does not necessarily require you to buy them lots of great merchandise.  Sometimes being the simple old you can yield even greater results. Being grand is nice but being simple just equals the same.  Most people say that the simple things really count but we tend to forget or often times ignore the importance of the little things around us.

If you try to take into account the small things that revolve around you and mix it up with the element of surprise, it could just be your ultimate weapon in pleasing your partner.

By just simply telling her that she's beautiful or just by complimenting on how she looks great with her new haircut could really make her day and it has even greater impact once you've found a way to bring it up to her when she least expects it.  It also helps to be updated with the current lingo, I'm not saying that the old is no good.  I'm just saying that it might sound a bit cliche if you use those lines, don't you think?

Try to be spontaneous and do things that are out of the ordinary, but don't overdo it since you might look a little too strange and she might think she made a huge mistake by dating or even marrying a schizophrenic psycho. XD

Try sending her flowers not because of a special occasion but just send it because you just want to make her smile.  Most men would stop sending flowers after they've officially became a couple which is not supposed to be.  You don't have to pay for expensive flower arrangements, one lovely rose is actually more than enough to make her smile and even love you more. By the way, a woman can also give her partner flowers if she wishes to, there's no shame in that.

This goes out to both genders - Remember that the little things you do matter too. If you think you've made a small bad decision that unintentionally hurt her, you should try to fix it right away.  Small or big, you should swallow your pride and apologize because there are cases wherein minor issues escalate then things get out of hand.

Small and simple things matter, be it good or bad.

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